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OurTime.com is a niche dating site released by People Media in 2011. The website provides men and women over 50s the opportunity to interact and meet with other people in their area and beyond. Users can search for pen-pals, friends, dates, long term relationships and even marriage partners.

OurTime is part of the OurTime Community of People Media, which also created other senior dating sites SeniorPeopleMeet and SeniorsMeet. Members of the OurTime Community will not just meet the members from a specific website. They will be part of the other two sites as well. This gives them even more chances of meeting their desired partners with the combined and thus enlarged membership base.

Don't confuse this site with another Our Time website that is under the Meetic Group (UK). Although they have the same name and target members (older adults), they are indeed two different dating sites.

OurTime Member Structure

1,500,000 from USA
Members activity
180,000 active weekly
Gender Proportion
55 %
45 %
  • Over 8 million site visits per month worldwide
  • Over 7.7 million visits per month from the US

Adults over the age of 50 are a rising demographic in the dating world; sadly, it is a demographic frequently neglected in mainstream dating sites. The site does an excellent job of giving people over the age of 50, a safe platform to meet other people for love and friendship.

Signing Up at OurTime

OurTime Registration
  • Users fill out a registration form with their personal information
  • Up to 30 photos can be uploaded
  • Registration takes only around 2-3 minutes
  • The signup process is simple, even for non tech-savvy individuals

The registration process is very easy, as the site only requires the most basic information from a person to create an account. This is very helpful, considering that the target market of the site is 50+ year old men and women.

Making Contact on OurTime

OurTime Search
  • The search option can be filtered to show who's online
  • You can filter the search results to show only new members
  • Profile images are visible to all members regardless of membership status
  • Users can get notifications whenever they get messages from other members
  • There is a chatroom
  • If you cannot send messages to other members because you are a free user, you can still show your interest by pressing the "Flirt" button, which is similar to a Like, or a Poke.

The dating site gives users several options when it comes to finding members they're interested in. Users get featured matches, which are refreshed daily. Aside from that, you can also search for other members using the free search function. You can filter your search based on several fields, including:

  • body type
  • photos or no photos
  • status
  • children
  • location by zip code
  • looking for
  • religion
  • ethnicity
  • zodiac sign
  • smoking reference
  • age range

The only downside to this is that while OurTime gives you several ways by which you can find other members, you can't contact them freely. To send messages to other members, you need an OurTime premium membership. Free users are limited to sending "Flirts" to members they are interested in.

Video Date

OurTime also has a video chatting feature that its members can use to set up virtual dates using the platform. This feature is available if you have already started a conversation with another person and have exchanged at least four messages.

OurTime Profile Quality

OurTime Profile
  • It is possible to see other members' profile pictures without a paid membership
  • The site doesn't have an identity verification system
  • There are several profile fields and text boxes that users can fill up
  • There are several fake profiles on the website
  • OurTime employees occasionally create test profiles to examine and check the site's functionality
  • The profiles are quite detailed
  • The profile information can be changed later
  • Profile pictures are visible to everyone for free

Profiles offer a lot of information about their members; of course, it is up to the user if they want to disclose that information with the public or not. Profile fields and text boxes are all optional, and they can be filled out a little bit at a time. Profile information can be changed anytime the user wishes. Profiles, when filled up properly, offer a lot of insight into the mind of the user. The site doesn't have a system in place that verifies whether or not the information stated on the website is accurate.

Assuming that all info on the profile is legitimate, it is possible to know enough about a person to see whether or not they would be a good match. It is possible to find real dates in OurTime. The only problem is that because of the site's target group; there are a lot of scammers creating fake profiles to take advantage of the site's users and try to steal money from them. It is advisable that users of the website exercise caution, and never send money to anybody they meet on the site.

OurTime App

OurTime App
  • The app's design is simple and linear
  • Icons and text are highly visible for the benefit of the users on the site
  • The app has the same amount of features as the desktop version

At first glance, an app for a dating site that caters to people over the age of 50 might seem impractical, but the app has seen a lot of usage and downloads since its launch. The app's design and layout complements the site's target group, with visible fonts and accessible menus. Although it doesn't offer anything new in terms of features, it provides a chance for its members to use the site even while lying down or reclined on a chair.

OurTime Real Life Review

"I lost my husband to a heart attack, and I was ready to live the rest of my life alone. At first, I felt that looking for someone new would mean cheating on my husband's memory, but two years as a widow have been nothing but pure loneliness. I'm still in good shape, and I still love going out to cafes, theatres and parks. However, I did not want to do it alone anymore. Through OurTime, I met Rick, who was a widower with two grown children. After three months of talking in chat, he finally wanted to meet, and we had a lovely evening - a nice dinner and a walk may seem like an ordinary date to anybody else, but to me, it felt as if I was young again. Because of OurTime, I found my constant companion, dear friend and lifetime partner."

- Brooklyn, Teacher, 58 

Design & Usability

The website's layout is neat and organized. All features are easily accessible through the side and top navigation menus. The design is very functional and user-friendly, which is extremely important for a website that has people over the age of 50 for a target group.

OurTime Costs and Prices

Free Services
  • Account registration
  • Profile Creation
  • Match search
Fee-Based Services
  • ConnectMe
  • NotifyMe
  • MatchMe
  • PromoteMe
  • ProfilePro
  • Profile Highlight (Value Plan only)

Is OurTime expensive or cheap?

In comparison to other providers OurTime is average.

Duration / Credits / CoinsCostsTotal
Standard Subscription
1 Month34.96 USD / Month34.96 USD
6 Months15.96 USD / Month95.76 USD
Value Subscription
6 Months19.96 USD / Month119.76 USD
OurTime Tokens
55 Credits0.05 USD / Credit2.99 USD
110 Credits0.05 USD / Credit5.99 USD
280 Credits0.04 USD / Credit9.99 USD
OurTime US Price
Payment Options
  • Credit Card
  • PayPal
  • Via Mobile Phone

The main difference between the standard subscription and the value subscription is that the latter has the following additional perks:

  • Get notified when another user has read your message
  • Your profile has a different background color, so it stands out from the rest
  • Your messages also have a different background color for the same effect

The token system is the online dating website's currency system. Aside from purchasing a paid subscription, users can pay for individual perks by buying tokens and spending them on the services such as:

  • Virtual gifts
  • Visibility boost

Subscription payments are renewed automatically. If you want to cancel your subscription, you must do so manually through your account settings.

Special Features

OurTime has several features which can increase your enjoyment of their dating service.These features help users find matches easier and increase their overall visibility on the site.


By opting for PromoteMe, you can make your profile more visible to other users on the site. Once you avail of the service, your profile will be placed on the top of search results for other site users.

Virtual Gifts

More often than not, the person you sent a message to has probably received messages from other users as well. To make sure they take notice of your message, you can send them a virtual gift as well to get their attention.


Once you get to know someone better, the site's text chat functions may start to feel constricted. If you want to take the next step but don't want to expose your phone number, you can get a virtual phone number via ConnectMe. This will allow you to talk to other users via voice call without compromising your identity.


The site's profile fields and text boxes are there so you can freely express yourself and stand out from other site members. However, if you're not well-versed in expressing yourself, you can avail of the site's Profile Pro services. A group of professional writers will get the necessary information for you and finish your profile on your behalf, with the intention of making it look interesting and unique.

Our rating

Signing Up: 4.0 / 5
Making Contact: 3.5 / 5
Profile Quality: 4.5 / 5
App: 4.0 / 5
Real Life Review: 4.5 / 5

Editor's Conclusion

DatingScout.com Author Chris Pleines
Men and women aged 50 and above are a growing demographic in today's dating industry. However, it is also the most neglected in mainstream dating websites. OurTime offers these men and women a safe and user-friendly platform where they can find other users in their area for love, friendship and dating. Of course, there will always be scammers on the website because of its target demographics, so be careful with who you trust and report any suspicious individuals. If you are looking to get back out there in the dating scene again, this might be the boost you need. Sign up now for free.

OurTime FAQ


Who is signed up to OurTime?

Majority of users who signed up are adults who are in their late 40s and above.

Why is OurTime so popular?

Because people over the age of 50 are actually a high population demographic, and mainstream dating sites just don't give that much attention to them. The site gets a lot of views and members because most of them are moving away from these mainstream sites and going to sites that cater specifically to their age range.

What's making OurTime successful?

The senior dating site is successful because it is a one-stop shop for everything men and women in their 50s need when it comes to online dating. Aside from giving users a chance to look for love and friendship, the site also gives them a chance to meet up personally and learn important dating lessons from webinars.

Is this site for younger people too, e.g. younger women looking for Sugar Daddies or younger men looking for “Cougars”?

Yes and no. The site is not exclusive to people in their 50s, and it allows younger people to sign up for an account as long as they are over 18 years of age. However, it is a site for younger people who just prefer older partners; it does not recommend certain shady practices, such as looking for older partners just for the sake of getting monetary and material support from them.

Where is OurTime located?

Their offices are based in Dallas, Texas.

Who owns OurTime?

People Media, a subsidiary of InterActiveCorp., owns the senior dating site.

When was OurTime established?

The website was launched in 2011.

Are Match and OurTime the same?

No. Although the two sites come from the same company, they're not the same. Match.com is a mainstream dating site while the other is a niche dating website that caters to people over the age of 50.

Why did SeniorPeopleMeet merge with OurTime?

Both sites were brands of People Media before, both catering to singles over 50. PeopleMedia decided to bring the two sites under one brand, to combine (and thus increase) the membership base. 

For singles signed up to SeniorPeopleMeet before, nothing changes. The membership, as well as premium subscriptions, are fully valid on OurTime as well. 

SeniorPeopleMeet merged with Ourtime.com


How does OurTime work?

Users open an account, complete their profiles and look for matches using the site's different search options. You can message any potential matches you're interested in by signing up for a premium account.

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Latest OurTime Experiences

  • Bri**** 65 years

    NaThere are so many members that have free membership that you can message people endlessly and they never get the message. So for a paying member it... can be a total waste of time. You’re scrolling through profiles that are inactive. There’s no incentive for people to remove their profile when they’re not accessing the site anymore because it’s free. «»

  • None*** 60 years

    Absolutely Nothing Filled with scammers I have been a member for 4 days and I have not had any replies even when I have a like still there’s no reply... I have asked for a refund I’ve yet to get it they flooded my email account with crap you have to pay a monthly fee of 40 bucks and there’s really no chance of you going on a date the odds being 100 to 1 the ones that do message you you click on it and it says not receiving messages from you I sent an email and by golly not one person can fix the issue, the scammers are the pretty ones, you can bank on that, OurTime does nothing the may delete the profile and send you an email say I WISHED ( THANKS FOR DOING OUR JOB ) I will go to my grave before I would sign up for OurTime PLEASE DO NOT SIGN UP VERY DANGEROUS SITE. IT WILL DO NO GOOD EXCEPT IT’S A GOOD WASTE OF TIME AND MONEY. «»

  • Shar*** 70 years

    Easy to use and abuse.Lots of scammers and 2 of the 6 men I met up with turned out to be married. If you have the means it is better to opt for a sit... e that does some screening. «»

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Company:People Media
Phone-Hotline:(866) 727-8920
Address:PO Box 12627 Dallas, TX 75225-0627