Contacting Member's Profile

Our Review is an adult dating site where people who are sexually adventurous can practice erotic, BDSM, bondage, and fetish sex. It is a mature dating platform where individuals who practice BDSM or those who are curious and would like to try can search for individuals who can satisfy their sexual cravings and feed their curiosity while having no strings attached sex and doing other thrilling and satisfying erotic acts.

Joining is free. Then again, you can have your basic account upgraded to access all the sites features and to enjoy all the benefits of being an premium member.

Member Structure

415,000 from USA
Members activity
150,000 new members per month
Gender Proportion
20 %
80 %
  • You get a personal profile which you can fill out
  • BDSM lovers
  • Curious about BDSM
  • Erotic and role-playing fans
  • No-strings-attached sex
  • Dominant and submissive

People who belong to the adult dating community are lovers of BDSM and those who are beginners or curious, who would like to try bondage and fetish sex. members are not necessarily singles - they can be individuals, couples, or groups who have unconventional taste in bed. They are erotic fans, and they are individuals who practice role-playing when having sex. Some members prefer to be the dominant one, while others like being submissive better. 

Becoming a member is not only for those who have been practicing BDSM. also welcomes newbies and those who are curious about this kind of sex dating. Most members just join to look for no-strings-attached sex. They are on the hunt for like-minded individuals who can satisfy their peculiar sexual fetishes. 


Age Distribution

  • 18-24
  • 25-34
  • 35-44
  • 45-54
  • 55+

Signing Up Sign-up
  • Sign-up as a couple or group
  • 5-step process
  • Writing Ideas
  • Strict account activation
  • Option to look for transsexuals, transvestites, and transgenders

Signing up for an account on only takes 5 minutes. The registration process involves 5 steps; all of which are required before successfully being able to create your profile.

Joining is free. When you register, you have the option to sign-up as a man, woman, couple, or group. That means not only singles can join but couples as well. In addition, you have to provide some personal details, such as your sexual orientation, body type, race, marital status, and role. Also, during registration, you will be asked to write something about yourself, but if you have no idea as to what to write, you can read’s Writing Ideas, a tool to help you tell others about yourself. has a strict account verification procedure. Before being redirected to your own profile page, you have to verify your email first because without having it verified, you will not be able to proceed.

Making Contact Contacting
  • Live free chat
  • Add other members as friends or to Hotlist
  • Upgrade to read received messages
  • Sending flirts is not free
  • There is a chatroom offers several contacting options to its users. As a member of this adult dating community, you can have a live chat with live models for free. Also, you can add certain members, who you find interesting, as your friend or to your Hotlist. In addition to that, you can also search for members who are online and who are nearby.

However, having only a basic membership has contacting restrictions. As a free member, you cannot send messages nor read your received messages. Also, you cannot send flirts to other interesting members. Therefore, to unlock all your contacting options, you must be an premium member.

Then again, as a way of communicating with other members, you can still join’s adult chat rooms.

Test for free

Profile Quality Member's Profile
  • Very detailed
  • Circumcision and endowment information
  • BDSM fundamentals
  • Purity test
  • Viewing profiles requires premium membership
  • The profiles are quite detailed
  • The profile information can be changed later
  • Profile pictures are visible to everyone for free

As a member of the adult dating community, you can complete and update your profile details anytime. It is also up to you as to how detailed you want your profile to be.

Most of the profiles on are very informative. Some of the details which can be found on a (male) member's profile are his endowment length and width and his circumcision information. In addition to that, also included in a member's profile are his/her (BDSM) role and level of experience. Some profiles also display the owner's AIM, MSN, and ICQ username, the result of his/her purity test (a set of questions which aims to measure how pure or naughty a member is), personality type, BDSM fundamentals, testimonials, friends network, bling, kinks, compatibility chart, and more. All these can help you have an idea about other members of this adult dating community.

However, you will only be able to view other members' profiles if you will subscribe to a Silver or Gold premium membership. Therefore, if you want to get to know an interesting member more by viewing his/her profile, you had better upgrade your basic membership. 

Real Life Review

“I am one of those individuals who has a peculiar taste when it comes to sex. Let’s go back to when I was younger.

When I was a teenager, my boyfriends were either cocky or jerky. I don’t know why, but I really find guys like those attractive and hot. Having a bad boy image, to me, adds oomph to their sex appeal.  Since then, I have been fascinated with those kinds of guys. Whenever I imagine bad boy stuff being done to me, to my body, I feel hot and sexy.

However, my recent boyfriends were conventional, so I had a boring sex life. Oftentimes, their being unadventurous in bed led to our breakup. And since then, I have been picky. For 2 years, I have been single. Luckily, I found a way to satisfy my unusual sexual cravings. When I learned that there are online dating sites that are for BDSM lovers, I searched for some, and among the first ones that I saw was Without second thoughts, I signed up. I began looking for hot guys and started contacting them.

I have been a premium member of for 3 months now, and I can say that I don’t have regrets signing up. I met several interesting men, but now I have been consistently seeing one guy who just brings me into the world of pleasure every time we’re together.” - Accountant (32)

Design and Usability

The design of is very plain and ordinary. The site uses only 3 colors - black for its background and yellow and white for its fonts. Since the site's background is dark, it may seem unpleasant for others. In addition to that, it seems like a lot is going on on some of the site's pages because some details are not properly sectioned, and there are pop-ups and embedded videos all over the page. 

On the other hand, the font style used on the site is not too big and not too small, which makes the words easy to read. In addition to that, even if the site's background is dark, the words still stand out because of their bright colors. Costs and Prices

Free Services
  • Registration
  • Uploading a photo
  • Joining chat rooms
  • Flirt
  • Send Flowers
  • Add to Hotlist
  • Add as friend
  • Hot or Not
  • Search
  • Kink search
  • Live member webcams
  • Test now for free
Fee based Services
  • View and contact members
  • Show up after Gold Members in searches (Silver Members)
  • Show up at the very top in searches (Gold Members)
  • Contact new customers (Silver Members)
  • Be the first to contact new members (Gold Members)
  • Access members' live and recorded video intros (Silver Members)
  • Get full access to members' recorded video intros (Gold Members)
  • Partial access to blogs, groups, and magazine features (Silver Members)
  • Full access to blogs, groups, and magazine features (Gold Members)
  • 24/7 phone support
  • Access to extra large photos (Gold Members)
  • Access to ICQ, AIM, and MSN ID's of members in your network (Gold Members)
  • Read messages
  • Send virtual gifts
  • Pay-per-minute adult movies
Duration / Credits / CoinsCosts per monthTotal
Silver Membership
1 Month22.94 $ / Month22.94 $
3 Months13.79 $ / Month41.37 $
12 Months10.29 $ / Month123.51 $
Gold Membership
1 Month34.44 $ / Month34.44 $
4 Months17.24 $ / Month68.97 $
18 Months10.29 $ / Month185.26 $

Is expensive or cheap?

In comparison to other providers is upper moderate.
Test now for free Price Table
Payment Options
  • Credit Card
  • Cheque

*Gold and Silver Members have unlimited access to all profiles. However, free members cannot initiate contact and view the profiles of Gold and Silver Members.

Special Features

These special features will certainly help you make your online dating experience fun and help you effectively find a suitable match:

Hot or Not

Photos will be presented to you one by one. Then, for each photo, you will have to decide whether it's hot or not.

Astrological Compatibility

This section shows the zodiac signs you are compatible with, your Chinese zodiac (animal sign), and your sexual biorhythm chart. 


Other members' written description of your desirable qualities. You can also write testimonials about other members on other profiles.


These are small icons, which you can either create or grab from their creators, that you can make use of to make your profile or your posts more interestingly naughty or to simply show your personality to other members.

My Kinks

This is where you can customize your kinks and search for other members who are into the same kinks. 

Our rating

Signing Up: 4.0 / 5
Making Contact: 2.5 / 5
Profile Quality: 4.0 / 5
Real Life Review: 4.0 / 5

Editors Conclusion

DatingScout Editor Chris Pleines
Tired of your boring sex life and want to try something new? Or do you have bizarre sexual fetishes? Then this dating site is where you should is an adult dating site especially for BDSM lovers and for those who would like to try out-of-the-ordinary erotic practices. It is a dating community where you can be adventurous with your sexual fetishes. This site has diverse members. In fact, it is not only for single people but also for couples or groups. It is where sexually adventurous people can search for like-minded individuals who can be their no-strings-attached BDSM partner. It is an adult dating community where you can unleash the wild erotic character in you.To fully enjoy being an member, you must subscribe to its premium memberships. Some of the many benefits of being a premium member are unrestricted viewing and contacting other members, full access to recorded videos, sending virtual gifts, watching pay-per-minute adult movies, and 24/7 phone support. These premium membership benefits are guaranteed to give you higher chances of having hookups. Therefore, if you want to be somewhere you can find like-minded people who are as adventurous and as extraordinary as you are in bed, and if you want to intensely enjoy and satisfy your sexual fetishes, sign-up at
Test for free


General Information

What is the difference between being a standard member and a premium member?

As a standard member, you only have access to chat rooms and magazine message boards. On the other hand, being a premium member, you have full access to members' profiles and different email functions.

What are the Popularity Privileges?

These are rewards that you get when you have many profile viewers. If a particular number of members view your profile within a period of three days, you will automatically have free access to 50 members' profiles. 

How can I receive Popularity Privileges?

There are many ways in which you can be rewarded with privileges, such as writing an interesting introduction, uploading photos, recording sexy videos, having many testimonials, and posting in's magazine and advice lines.

How is being a guest different from being a member?

As a guest, you may enter the site and explore. However, to post something and to use the different features, you must be an member.

What is the Purity Test all about?

The Purity Test has different questions that reveal how pure or naughty you are. 

I want to know more about the Fetish Consent Worksheet.

The Fetish Consent Worksheet is a form that can be printed. It is used by play partners when negotiating in a scene. By agreeing to participate in different fetish acts, both you and your play partner can have pleasure in your sexual adventures without confusion as to what each other has to expect. 

How and where can I view my billing history?

Just go to My Account and click Billing History and Credit Card Info. Then you'll see your billing information.

Account and Profile

How do I change my username?

Just go to My Account, click Change Username, enter a new username, then click Check Availability.

What is ConfirmID?

It is a third-party verification service that confirms members' attributes, such as gender, age, and body type. This verification aims to establish trust.

What are Profile Highlights?

These are background colors that are attention-grabbing. They show up whenever other members see your emails or see you in their search results. These highlights make your profile stand out from the rest. 

How does Email Availability work?

It allows you to stop other members, who don't match your Cupid settings, from sending emails to you. A member who doesn't match with you will only see a shaded area in your profile instead of the normal email form.

What is Voice Greeting?

It is a recording of your voice, introducing yourself to other members who are checking your profile.

How do I record a Voice Greeting?

Just go to your homepage and click the Voice Greeting link in the Profile box. When the voice recording software has already loaded, a set-up box will ask access to your camera and microphone. When you have already thought about what you want to say, click Record. Click Stop once you are done talking. If you want to listen to what you've recorded, click Play. Then click Save to add that Voice Greeting to your profile.


How to use the Fetish Checklist?

Click the Edit Profile link on your homepage, and click the Fetish Checklist link. Then you can enumerate the fetishes that you like, your preferred role, interest level and experience level. After specifying your fetishes, click the Save button to save your Fetish Checklist to your profile.

What is Magazine?

It is a page that contains member-submitted content, like poetry, advice, essays, and success stories. Whenever you submit your own content or give response/s in the advice column, you receive points.

What is RSS?

It is an acronym that stands for Really Simple Syndication. The RSS link lets you set-up your favorite RSS reader to regularly notify you about new posts in that blog.

You did not find your question? Ask us!

Please ask your question.
Please enter your name.

Thank you for your question. We will answer it as soon as possible.

Share your experience

Unfortunately, there are no experience reports about Be the first one and share your experiences:

I am:
Please select one option.
I am searching for:
Please select one option.
Please insert your experience report.
Please enter your age.
Please rate
Please specify whether you would recommend

Thank you for sharing your experience! After verifying it we will publish your experience here.

Personalized Recommendation

Which dating site is right for you?

Get your personalized recommendation

Get more info...


Address:910 E. Hamilton Ave. Suite 600, Campbell, CA. 95008