Fetish.com Review July 2025

Fetish.com has a no-fuss registration process that will only take at least five minutes to complete. If you already know what you are looking for on this site, you might finish it in less time. 

Unlike dating sites that ask many questions, Fetish.com is only interested to know a few important pieces of information about you. Upon signing up, you are to fill out fields that require you to specify your location, birthday, and some details on your sexual preferences. The site is open to all gender identities, so you must indicate how you identify yourself from the very beginning.

You are also given a chance to specify who you are interested in and what you are looking for on the site. Fetish.com has a pre-made list of answers for this section, so you must select the best items that describe what you want. Here are some things you might find there:

• BDSM lovers - Singles or couples who are into BDSM
• Kinky dates - Casual dates with kinky individuals
• Friends
• NSA (no strings attached) - Casual relationships that can be sexual or not
• LTR (long-term relationships) - People looking for long-term commitments
• Swingers - Someone who enjoys group sex and swapping sexual partners
• Pic exchange
• Cybersex
• Events and places
• Networking - Those who want to connect with professional kink and fetish masters

If you are still exploring or aren't vocal about your secret kinks yet, you might worry that people will know who you are if you sign up on this site. But the good news, Fetish.com does not ask for your name. The site uses unique usernames for identification and has an email verification process for all its aspiring members.

"Do I need to buy a subscription to talk to other members?" you might ask. This seems to be a primary concern people have when joining dating sites. Well, the answer to that is yes and no. 

If you are a free user on the site, there are a lot of ways where you can show your interest and connect with other people. There are free chat rooms available for everyone to join. Most of the time, you will find the most active users here. The members in chat rooms are so friendly that if you come and say "Hi," all the active members will greet you and include you in the conversation. If you're more of a lurker, you have to start learning how to say something when you're in a room.

The site encourages interaction, so when it has detected that you have been idle for a certain period, you will be kicked out. But don't worry, you can still rejoin any time you want. You can also start a conversation with anyone through the site's IM function or leave comments on photos of other members for free.

If you are the type of person who wants to use Fetish.com without any restrictions, you might consider a premium or VIP membership. This will give you better privileges on messaging features, and you can also leave messages on people's walls. If you're feeling generous, you can also send gifts to other members, which will cost you points depending on what gift you want.

There are many fields to fill out on your profile on Fetish.com. Your profile settings are separated into About Me, My Personal Information, BDSM Roles & Fetishes, My Dates, My Walls, and Website. Many members focus on their About Me section and are quite descriptive and specific. Here's the place to fill out detailed information about you/your body, and your search intentions. You can reveal as much information as you like. Some juicy examples are as follows:

• What are your kinks and fetishes? 
• When did you discover you were kinky? Tell us about your journey through kink and BDSM.
• What turns your kinky brain and body on?

Your profile section mostly contains the details that you provided upon signing up. If you have given information that doesn't reflect your wants and needs, you can easily change and update them anytime. 

Fetish.com has a lively profile, which sort of exudes a social-media vibe. On your profile, you will see your profile stats, some pictures of people who checked you out, and the list of profiles you've visited. It even has a wall where other members can leave you a comment whenever they like. Aside from the profile photo, you can also upload a cover photo to spruce up your profile. The site allows you to upload private photos that will only be visible to premium members.

When you upload a photo, post a status, start a forum, or create a personal ad, it will be posted on the site's homepage. There, other members can comment and rate the activity that you did. Despite the site's effort to filter suspicious accounts, fake profiles are still possible.