Adam4Adam Experiences & Opinions USA

There seem like a lot of guys on at any one time and it’s easy to see that immediately.Ages vary wildly.

I’m 52 so I’m not in the desirable age group, but I maintain myself very well and get complimented often enough. Keep my age in mind with my complaints.OK- So like many social apps there isn’t much that intuitively lands you where you want to be ( in fact the opposite).. Gimmicks abound. The instant call and/or video chat feature was activated by someone and directed to me, without a warning (that I was knew of). Suddenly my phone was ringing with a stranger on the line. I freaked and disconnected before words exchanged.. Then I think he blocked me out of embarrassment. It could have been the start of a beautiful beginning! You can send ‘gifts’ and such to people using the appropriate icons. The idea and the act seems a bit escort-ish / desperate but I think the feature can be silenced. I would have to read, read, read to understand it. My reaction to some random guy with an icon letting you know they take gifts wasn’t very positive. Lots of guys send smiley faces but don’t seem interested in conversation. I think they are trying to boost their recognition, hoping you’ll ’follow’ them which is counted as a number, potentially climbing to a high number, suggesting. popularity. Finally, ponder this common occurrence. I get much attention from those who live between miles away. Hustlers? Likely. Come to think of it, very little attention from locals, whose photos sit on the screen surrounded by the company of others. All of them thinking - and some faces I recognized from years back- that they have something extraordinary to share with some lucky guy. Preferably an ex-model turned Wall Street financier. Come to earth guys, and accept the offers of platonic friends, until Mr. Right knocks on your door! Or keep those smiley faces coming.

There are several concepts about the apps design that are useful: Chats, Wall, Groups, Explore. The way profiles are presented is nice. I like that the app tries to give an expectation of how long it takes for a profile to reply and when they joined. These two features help weed out fake profiles from the rest.

The site is overrun by fake profiles. Every last one I have interacted with was fake. It became so tiring to just block or delete all the fake profiles that I finally just dumped the site. It isn't worth it. Total waste of time.

It's a pathetic hookup site that is so full of whores who want money and total losers that can't make up their mind's what they want. Don't bother.

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Not a damn thing scammers bot profiles underaged prostitution drugs if I could give this app a zero I would

Sucks!! Waste of time!!!! Don’t go there!!! Where should I start illegal activities like prostitution guys asking for me to get them gift cards Apple Cards don’t have gas money but there 5 miles away guess they need the 20 bucks gas money for meth or other drugs sucks!!!

I'm a Top. If you just looking to fuck. There are a few power bottoms, looking for me.

The profiles that show in location, less than a mile. Not reality, usually fake profiles, so ignore these altogether.

If I liked ads, this is the place to go. Very aggressive ads.

Old men and odd assorted partiers.

Sadly, adam4adam app used to be an excellent app with really nice guys about 4 years ago. Now it is quickly going down the drain, too much meth, PnP guys, and mind games. Guys asking for gas money. Come on, show your face pictures, it’s 2023. Plenty of guys from the Kansas Cedric Cheney area which seem to be scammers.

Meth head guys asking for Apple Card’s or gas money, not much of a selection. Same guys on this app are rude and arrogant guys. They always ask the same boring questions over and over, like how are you doing? Do you live alone? What do you do for a living? Avoid guys from Kansas Cedric Cheney area, they seem to be scammers!

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Hookers, liars, drug users, scammers are 80% of the profiles. Way too many ads.

USED TO BE a hot spot meet HOT guys - met many many guys on there a long time ago when real guys hungry to meet were saturating the service - those guys are long gone never to return - if you do get a real profile and not a fake one, the guy is indifferent and flaky - might be a generational thing.

The profiles on here are almost all fake....like 95% of "messages" i get are simply a smiling face sent by "someone" in another city - almost all fake profiles - the weird thing is, if you answer, someone real will type back- but it's like a catfish situation - they are not who they say they are and although they may claim to be looking for a relationship or whatever, it's all fake..adam 4adam is going down the same path that gay.com did in the sense that for many many years, the site was the hottest anywhere - it was overflowing with gays truly wanting to meet now - i had so many messages i could barely keep up with them - now it's just fake profiles or unanswered messages on real profiles...I get that I'm not 20-30 years old anymore so that probably has something to do with why I'm not getting messages anymore, but I am far from ugly - back in the golden years of adam4adam EVERY GUY got fed, even the older guys had options on there - now it's a bleak wasteland of fake profiles ....just like gay.com who was eventually completely overrun by fake profile "bots/robots" after many amazing years - gay.com eventually failed and tbh, i wouldn't be shocked at all if the same thing happened to adam4adam because the same thing is happening on adam now - I wish adam4adam luck - i cancelled my account for the last time. I'd rather be in church amongst real people. Back many years ago

Such a suspicious operation.

Very suspicious hosting lineage. Hosted in Canada but customer service responds with poor English. Lots of fake Pinterest pics, profiles, cash app scams, and identity extortion attempts. Lots of under age real or fake profiles - hard to tell. BUT if you report Pinterest pics or minors, the site just suspends your ability to report problem profiles even when the minor admits their age in messaging. Never give out your email address, phone number, or any identifying information. Dark web cross searches, they learning your real identity then threaten to ‘out’ you to family, neighbors, or employers unless you pay up. 80% of new profiles never log back in a 2nd time. Apparently fraudulent to inflate the membership numbers. Site administrators have no interest in cleaning up the fakes, crimes, or under age child porn sent by under 18 year olds of themselves. Your ability to ‘report’ is simply suspended. Very suspicious ownership or connection to law enforcement. It’s a minefield with great risks.

ADAM IS A TERRIBLE WEBSITE. THE "HOOK-UP" ARE PRETTY BAD - THEY ARE EITHER MUSCLE-BOUND AND CAN'T SPEAK PROPERLY OR ARE SPANISH SPEAKING ONLY. THAT'S FINE IF YOU CAN UNDERSTAND SPANISH. THEY SEEM TO SPEND THE ALLOTTED TIME PLAYING WITH THEMSELVES, SHAKING THEIR COCK AND REAR-END. THERE IS VERY LITTLE ABOUT THEM THAT IS ATTRACTIVE. AND, AS I SAID THEIR ENGLISH IS TERRIBLE.

I wonder if anyone from adam4adam will read this. I recently signed up on their site, first time but I was not able to sign in. I kept trying but they kept :suspending" my account, without reason. I fianlly contacted them but still received no explanation. It wa aftet I told them ....after seeing their young, hit models on their main page, it was apparent to me that those are the only types of guys they want on their site. I am a 62 year old chub. I cannot, in good faith, reccomend adam4adam to anyone over the age of...well, let's say 40, because everyone on there looks to be under 40 nd right out of a gym. How sad sites like this hav beome so prejudiced. Good luck to them though.

They suspended my account without any reason. Created a new one and they suspended that too. I hadn't uploaded any photos so I couldn't have violated their Terms & Conditions. I hadn't contacted anyone or used any inappropriate language on my profile. In fact, I was just setting up my profile, listing my stats, when I was automatically logged out. When I tried to log back in, it said my account was suspended. Piece of SHIT site. AVOID like herpes.

Though it is a wonderful App. I tend to prefer Grindr in general because of one serious flaw in A4A. Unlike many other apps. This one has a horrible "near me" distance. If a user is shown near me and it says 1000' away. It actually could be many miles away. It floats all over the place with distances. So this makes it rather awkward for hookups

I only use the desktop version (no smart phone), and A4A always sees me at the wrong location. I live in Albuquerque, but it thinks I live in Las Cruces, then El Paso, and recently in Phoenix -- I have a specific interest in fem guys, twinks and transwomen, so the location is important -- there aren't very many that "fit my bill"

I love Adam4Adam and their new design. The app is the best app out there. Unlike Grindr or Scruff, or Hornet, there's no crazy ads every 2 seconds and they dont ask me to upgrade every 2 minutes.

Great

FAKE profiles all the time. So easy to spot. For example - who is born in the USA that spells humor, "humour"?? Bad grammar gives it away all the time. Hot photos of guys looking for a relationship -- really? On A4A?? Prostitution is rampant. Always being asked for money for sex. Reporting the fake profiles or ones soliciting sex for money go NO WHERE with the management. They do not care. Also great place to buy party drugs if you're into that.

This site is perfect... if ... you are a super model, body builder and have the looks of a movie.porn star with an ego the size of a house. All others, you will NOT be welcome and they will find a way for you not to join or remain a member. i

This site used to be nice , now its become nothing but drug's ( and A4A promotes it with selecting"Party and Play" , prostitutes , old married craiglist men ,UNDERAGE children ( and all you have to do is click that your 18 ) and low low life's who LOVE to show off their "private pictures for the entire world to see , Ive been a paid member and probably have 5000 blocks , the site should be taken down PERIOD

While there are many "no shows" or "all talkers" on a4a, I find the platform itself to be user-friendly and convenient. The newer edition is even easier; it shows just how far each person is from you. a4a can be a pleasant experience as long as you don't get offended by the rudeness of strangers; as strangers, don't let their "meeting qualifications" or rude replies impact your emotions or self-esteem.

Overall excellent compared to Grindr and Scruff. There is much more information available in each profile and its easier to narrow your search based on the profile.

It's a pretty good site with a mix of people, but a warning (not a criticism of A4A per-say) - since Backpage and Craiglist shut down personals, a lot of scammers have signed up and are trolling users. I'm not sure what any hookup site can do to guard against this, but always be careful.

lot's of phonies, flakes, new website is buggy, frustrating craigslist was much more fun, better experiences and guys, believe it or not

I've had some hot hookups and met some really good cool people.