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Secret Benefits Experiences & Opinions USA

Experiences and opinions of other visitors that were mediated via Secret Benefits.
5.0excellent
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Secret Benefits is a sugar dating site for sugar daddies and sugar babies looking for transactional relationships
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Members in the USA2,422,000
Women / Men 25% 75%
From$59
Age 25-34 45-54 55+

25 Secret Benefits experiences from real users in the USA

1.9/ 5
★★★★★
28%
recommend Secret Benefits
28%
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25 reader reports
What readers liked
  • Very easy-to-use site
  • Successful dates and ongoing relationships
  • Real, active, and verified profiles
What readers complained about
  • Messages often receive no replies
  • Fake profiles and scam concerns
  • Payment processing creates problems
  • No live video chat
48 years
CARLVerified Secret Benefits user ★★★★★

Can't video chat.

Recommends Secret Benefits
64 years
Greg ★★★★★
Does not recommend Secret Benefits
35 years
Swaroop ★★★★★
Does not recommend Secret Benefits
65 years
mike ★★★★★
Does not recommend Secret Benefits
50 years
ZacVerified Secret Benefits user ★★★★★

I agree with things reported in the previous reviews. I purchased 500 credits and sent more than 20 messages mostly to reply to the message I received. I got no replay. Or, some of them sent me a key to access their secret phots that cost me 10 credits to unlock. I write a message to these girls but got no reply. They successfully made me spend 20 credits. I'm going to use up my credit and finish with the site as It's not possible to reach real members.

Does not recommend Secret Benefits
55 years
S. Anderson ★★★★★
Does not recommend Secret Benefits
45 years
PissedConsumerVerified Secret Benefits user ★★★★★

Total scam. Use SA

Does not recommend Secret Benefits
56 years
Nocash ★★★★★

Everybody's going to do something for a living He seems like lately all the women in this country want to do is fuck for money

Does not recommend Secret Benefits
54 years
michael ★★★★★

I am certain the profiles here are largely fake. SA is a much better site for this kind of thing.

Does not recommend Secret Benefits
66 years
FredVerified Secret Benefits user ★★★★★

I either have to get an international travel card or use my personal credit or debit card on the site. There is no way to mail me my money order, and the option of using a gift card does not exist.

Does not recommend Secret Benefits
48 years
CamVerified Secret Benefits user ★★★★★

Besides the cost of it and the fact that we pay that much for credits is a scam. I have messaged ppl and not one response and these were ppl who supposedly were my matches and sent me a msg. After spending 10 credits to read msg that is just pretty basic I send a msg back and no one of the 10 ppl have ever replied. I msg the site asking them 1. Do the females or sugar babies have to have credits to reply to msgs I sent. He said no they dont have to have credits to reply. 2. I asked is there a delay in the msgs that I send to them. He said no they get them instantly. I find it really hard to believe that no one has replied. So my friend set up an acct as a sugar baby. I sent msgs to her. And guess what. NOTHING. This site is scamming ppl it's fake and should refund EVERYONES money back.

Does not recommend Secret Benefits
51 years
GeorgeVerified Secret Benefits user ★★★★★

99% of contacts don't even get ONE response. Many just send a single message (which you have to pay to read) and then nothing after that. Compared with my experience on other sites, this is terrible. It makes me suspect most of the profiles are fake.

Does not recommend Secret Benefits
60 years
Dennis ★★★★★
Does not recommend Secret Benefits
57 years
user ★★★★★
Does not recommend Secret Benefits
42 years
Woody ★★★★★
Does not recommend Secret Benefits
67 years
Brian ★★★★★

I don't like the rotation. When at the top of the rotation you get a lot of interest then close to zilch at the bottom. I don't like or trust their payment processors, nor will your bank. I recommend using a Western Union money card with the exact amount you need....

Recommends Secret Benefits
35 years
Eooo ★★★★★

The site is a scam. You get lots of initial messages, have to pay to unlock them, then not a single one of them will reply. Super shady stuff. As in I had over 50 initiating messages from "members", paid to unlock them. Then not a single reply. The amount of initial messages from women is a red flag in itself. That just doesn't happen.

Does not recommend Secret Benefits
41 years
DonVerified Secret Benefits user ★★★★★

No live video chat

Recommends Secret Benefits
50 years
JakeVerified Secret Benefits user ★★★★★

Support will not respond to emails. I have spoke with them in the past and they were great. The last few months, horrible. I'm not sure what's going on there. Ever since they made you switch to bitcoin to purchase credits, it's been a nightmare.

Does not recommend Secret Benefits
43 years
ArkVerified Secret Benefits user ★★★★★

They need an app for my iphone

Recommends Secret Benefits
42 years
Sam C.Verified Secret Benefits user ★★★★★

No live video chats

Recommends Secret Benefits
72 years
Roger ★★★★★
Does not recommend Secret Benefits
54 years
Tom ★★★★★
Recommends Secret Benefits
56 years
Roland ★★★★★
Does not recommend Secret Benefits
45 years
bob ★★★★★
Recommends Secret Benefits
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