Red Hot Pie

Our Review

It may have originated from Australia, but RedHotPie has been making its way throughout the world. It is marking its territory in the online dating world. 

Regardless of your sexuality, you are welcome to try and search your perfect date through this site. Not alone? Tag along with your partner or your group and together, explore the wonders that RedHotPIe offers.

Users can join the site using their Facebook login and can utilize social networking features by participating in forums, photo galleries and by liking other members profiles and pics. 

The majority of Red Hot Pie members are under 35 and members seem to be quite active on the site and frequently interact with other members.

Member Structure

2,000,000 from USA
Members activity
800,000 active weekly
Gender Proportion
37 %
63 %
  • Thirty-three percent of RedHotPie members are from the United States
  • Singles, couples and groups of all gender are present on the members' list of RedHotPie
  • A lot of members are swingers who want to explore their sexual fantasies with one or more people
  • Male members are greater than the female members by almost twenty percent
  • Almost thirty percent of the total RHP members are 25-34 years old

The United States ranks second next to Australia, among the countries with the most number of RHP members. Considering that AU is the origin country of the site, the USA also has a significant number of members actively using the site.

Gender is not an issue and even couples and groups called swingers are welcome to use the site's features. RHP acknowledges swingers from the moment they sign up. When answering the registration form, they have the opportunity to declare their needs to properly match them with other swingers like them.

The difference between the number of male and female members are remarkable. This could mean that men are more open-minded than women with what RHP can offer. As scientific studies show, men are more polygamous in nature, which supports the idea that men are more likely to engage in swinger-kind of relationships.

The majority of Red Hot Pie members are under 35 but not younger than 24 years old. Members of these ages seem to be quite active on the site and frequently interact with other members. Considering that they are the age group with the easiest access to the internet without any restrictions like the younger ones have. Older people tend to get easily bored learning the new technology, which makes them less interested in online dating.


Age Distribution

  • 18-24
  • 25-34
  • 35-44
  • 45-54
  • 55+

Signing Up

  • Free registration for all
  • Great for couples and groups
  • Not-so-strict signup process
  • Complete your registration by answering questions about you and your dream date
  • Upload a profile photo which will be for review for a few hours

The signup process of RedHotPie is simple and doesn't require much information. All you need is your email or a linked Facebook account. There will also be a verification email once you've successfully filled out the needed information.

It may seem to be appealing to have an easy registration process, but this makes the site vulnerable to fake users and profiles.

It is open for everyone regardless the gender or relationship status.  Step 2 of the registration will let you choose whether you are straight, trans or tv/cd. This step also asks about your relationship status and if you are creating an account with your partner or group. Couples and groups are very much welcome and can explore any of the special features of the site. 

The third and fourth steps of registration let you describe yourself by choosing the right icon for your body type, height, and ethnicity.  It also gives you the opportunity to declare who are you looking for, the age range, and your intentions about the relationship.

Making Contact

  • Sending messages is mostly for premium members
  • Guest members can send free messages when there's a match
  • Web Chat and Text Chat features are available
  • Use a standard flirt message for free to get the attention of another member
  • Report disrespectful members to block them from contacting you and viewing your profile

There are different ways on how you can communicate with other members. There is a simple messaging style, text chat and webchat. 

Contacting Options

Simple messaging is quite similar to sending emails. You may also see the status of the message whether it's unread or opened already. 

Webchat allows you and the other member see each other and have a virtual face-to-face conversation.

Text chat is where you can send and receive instant messages like Facebook Messenger and the now-discontinued app- Yahoo! Messenger. To enter the chatroom, you should have an Adobe Flash plug-in. It best works in Mozilla Firefox browser.

Flirt is one of the special features of RHP.  It helps members, especially guests, connect with other members by letting them send default messages. You can choose from three categories: ice breakers, to the point, and cheeky.

Search Settings

You can change your search settings based on the username, gender, age, location, and/or their preferences. 

There are also advanced search settings for premium members.

If you don't want to receive any messages for the moment, you may adjust the settings and activate the lock feature. Unlock it and receive messages again in your own convenience.

When checking the inbox, messages highlighted in red are from premium members. Those highlighted in green are unread at the time of the login.

Using the contacting features is available for all paying members. It is allowed for both mobile and desktop. However, guest members can also have the chance to send messages if they are sending messages to a match-- somebody who meets your criteria given that you also meet his/her criteria.

For members who wish to block certain users sending inappropriate messages or showing improper behavior, you may report them using the "Report Abuse" link.

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Profile Quality

  • Detailed profile information to give you a glimpse of what your future date is
  • Set the status of your current mood
  • Profile photos are visible to everyone
  • Pay for membership to view restricted photos
  • All profiles need to be validated using your photo and mobile number

    Each member has a choice of what to show on his or her profile. Just go to "account and profile" and edit the fields that you want to change. You may also add information to the parts that you've skipped before. 

    A lot of members are open when it comes to their profile information. Even sensitive topics such as intimate, sexual, and fetish interest are usually filled out by the members.

    Photos are optional. However, profiles with photos look more genuine and more likely to become interesting to other users. You may also add separate folders for public, private and amateur picture sets.

    Other information includes physical appearance, lifestyle, general interests, and activity. 

    While completing your profile, you have the option to put "Ask me" and "Do not display." Do this if you prefer to be mysterious or want to have more privacy.


    • Download the app for free with In-app purchases
    • Ninety percent of RedHotPie members are using the app instead of the desktop version
    • The app has a simple layout
    • RedHotPie app is available in Apple Store and Play Store
    • You will be billed on your iTunes account or Play Store account upon purchasing some premium features

    Like other dating apps, RedHotPie is free for download using your iPhone or Android phone. There are some in-app purchases which let you access the premium features of the app. Make sure to turn off the auto-renew if you don't intend to keep the app or the premium services for a long time to avoid inconvenience. 

    Most members prefer using the app version since navigating is faster and easier. 

    Also, just like any other applications, you can use it anywhere using your phone.

    Real Life Review

    After moving interstate for a new job I needed to get out and about and make some new friends. A guy at work told me about RedHotPie and that he used the site to meet around 10 girls in the past year. Some were serious dates, others were just hookups. I thought I could do it too, so I registered and looked for a hookup experience too! On my first three days on the site, I had conversations with a lot of girls I found through search. Until I had a nice conversation with someone I found while checking out the forum about awkward sexual experiences. I messaged her and we met that weekend. Yes we hooked up, and a year later we are still hooking up, but she is now my girlfriend. And no, there is definitely no awkward sexual experiences between us! -James, Account Manager, 24 

    Design and Usability

    RedHotPIe offers a lot of functionality and special features. However, this can make the site seem overwhelming at first since there is too much to look at in one page. With a little practice, it wouldn't take that long getting used to the site.

    On the other hand, the app is much easier to navigate since the functionalities are divided into categories (home, messages, discover, prospects, and main menu).

    When it comes to loading time, the site and the app responds on medium speed.

    Red Hot Pie Costs and Prices

    Free Services
    • Flirts
      Guests and paid members can send unlimited Flirt messages to other users to indicate that they are interested.
    • Replying to Emails
      Guests and paid members can respond to messages sent by paid members.
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    Fee based Services
    • Sending Emails
      Only paid members can send other members messages, unless a guest member is sending a Platinum Diamond Club member a message which is free.
    Duration / Credits / CoinsCosts per monthTotal
    5 daily messages, 2 webcam chat views
    1 Month39.40 USD / Month39.40 USD
    20 daily messages, 2 webcam chat views, request private chats
    1 Month54.60 USD / Month54.60 USD
    50 daily messages, 3 webcam chat views, request private chat, guests can message you
    1 Month79.50 USD / Month79.50 USD
    Platinum Diamond Club
    Unlimited messages, 6 webcam chat views, request private chat, guests can message you, 'Diamond' status badge on profile
    12 Months31.67 USD / Month380.00 USD

    Is Red Hot Pie expensive or cheap?

    In comparison to other providers Red Hot Pie is upper moderate.
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    Payment Options
    • Credit Card
    • Direct Debit
    Payment discretion
    • Payments will appear on your credit card statement under a discreet billing name for privacy.

    If you sign up for more than a month you can save a lot on your memebership. Sign up for 3 months and you will save up to 52%, 6 months up to 66% and 12 months up to 76%!

    Once you sign up to a paid membership plan, the membership is automatically renewed each month. This function can be disabled in account settings though and your membership will expire once your paid membership period ends.

    Special Features

    Lets you choose from several flirt messages to attract other members even if you can or cannot message them. This feature helps you give a good first impression with the right choice of message for the right kind of member.

    If you are sending a flirt to a user who doesn't match your criteria or vice versa, you will be notified and asked if you still want to send the flirt. It is free anyway, so why not take that risk? 

    Amateur Pics
    Browse sexy and naughty photos posted by the members. Feeling confident and showy? Post your pictures too and get a chance to win some cash prize if it will be chosen.
    You may also have a collection of your amateur photos by creating an album on your profile.

    See members around your area using the app. Adjust your privacy settings to accurate, vicinity, and nearby.
    With accurate, your location will be shown to members when you appear to their search results. 
    Vicinity will just let other members know that you are around the area, nothing exact will be shown. 
    Lastly, nearby gives you maximum privacy by only showing your registered location, not the current one.

    Date Finder
    Just provide the date of your preference, describe your date or dates and the venue, and choose an inviting message for your prospects.

    Webcam and Text Chats
    Turn on your webcam and connect with a member or members for a more exciting experience.  Adult chat is for a sexy and steamy encounter.
    Couples chat lets you (with or without company) meet another couple who wants to be naughty and playful!
    If you are looking for others who share the same interests with you, try Kinks & Fetish Chats. 
    LGBT Chat is a special chat feature for the members of the LGBT community. 
    For something wholesome and more of a friendly online meetup, try the Social Chat and start everything above-the-belt. 
    Those who prefer to sending and reading text messages only, use the text-only chat. 

    Date Away/ Travel Plan
    If you are planning to travel and meet other members on your destination, check out this feature and schedule your date! Save time and finalize your itinerary right away by just choosing the date of your meet up and match it with other members' schedule.

    Our rating

    Signing Up: 4.0 / 5
    Making Contact: 4.5 / 5
    Profile Quality: 4.5 / 5
    App: 4.0 / 5
    Real Life Review: 4.5 / 5

    Editors Conclusion

    Chris Pleines
    Red Hot Pie has plenty of features that are rarely offered on other datings sites such as date finder and webcam chats. There are also discussions and forums where people can share their insights with each other. Sign up now and who knows, it might help you find your date as easy as a piece of a pie?
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    General Facts

    I receive notification for every nearby member's activity. How can I turn it off?

    On the Nearby Page at the bottom of RedHotPie site, click notify me and choose which setting only sends notifications to you.

    What is TV/TS?

    TV/TS stands for Transvestite/Transsexual who enjoys cross-dressing or are identified as the opposite sex. RedHotPie respects if they wish to be identified as male and female which they may choose upon registration.

    I gave some members access to my private photo albums but they can't still see the contents, what should I do?

    Other members cannot view your restricted photos unless they are paying for membership. If they are premium members of RedHotPie, they should see the contents except when they are using the app on Apple devices. Due to the company's rules about explicit contents, such photos cannot be saved or accessed through the app.
    Your friends can check out your photos using browsers like Safari, Google Chrome or Mozilla Firefox.

    Why is my photo not verified yet by RedHotPie?

    The verification process takes at least three days. You have to make sure that you followed all the guidelines about the verification photo to avoid inconveniences.

    Why did my messages in my RedHotPie inbox disappear?

    There are three possible reasons why the messages were removed. First, it is more than six months old. Second, the member who sent it was removed from RHP. Lastly, if the message contains inappropriate contents, it will be subjected for evaluation and later on deletion.

    Membership and Payment

    How can I turn off my auto-renew of my RedHotPie premium membership?

    How can I turn off my auto-renew of my RedHotPie premium membership?

    What if I missed a special offer for a RedHotPie Membership?

    Check the upgrade page every now and then because they sure do return their promos once in a while.

    I want to change my credit card credentials for my RedHotPie membership, do I need to pay something?

    Verification of a new credit card costs 1$.

    What will appear on my credit card billing when I pay for RedHotPie membership?

    The billing will be sent by Digital Quarter PTY LTD. RedHotPie will not appear on your statement of account.

    Is there an alternative payment method aside from credit/debit cards?

    You can use a Verotel Account to pay for your RedHotPie membership. For apps, the app provider collects the payment from you-- your card details are not directly linked to your RHP account.


    What can make my RedHotPie profile rejected?

    RHP team will reject profiles which contain the detailed location and private information of the member, bad words, any sort of illegal behaviors, solicitation and money-making scheme, exploitation of minors, nonsense information on the paragraph part to meet the minimum number of required words, language rather than English, and copyright issues.

    I cannot retrieve the old email address I used to sign up for RedHotPie, what should I do?

    It's possible to reset your account if you can provide the original username and email address you used to set up your account.

    My RedHotPie account has been hacked, what should I do?

    Change your password right away and contact the customer service right away for them to verify your identity and reset the account for you.

    What does locked profile mean?

    In RedHotPie, your profile is locked if it is still under review. You have to wait for a few hours to about a day until your profile is approved or rejected. During that time, you are not yet allowed to send messages to any member.

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