At MamFlirt, there are different ways to get another member's attention.
Sending messages, and chatting are the most important function this site can offer. However, you have to upgrade your membership to use these features. Upon signing up, the site gives you five free chats to test the waters and start communicating with a member who attracts you most. Use this to start a conversation with at least five different members. Your free chat privileges renew every day. Chat messages sent by free members expire within a day if you do not purchase any premium membership package.
You may also connect with other members by using the "Like Gallery" which is very similar to Tinder's Swipe feature. Instead of swiping left or right, you have to click on the heart icon if you like the member's photo, and click on the "X" icon if you don't. A member will be notified once another member likes his/her profile.
Another option is to send a Flirtcast (flirty message) to members who match you, all at once. Flirtcast is a preset message and cannot be edited. You may choose another Flirtcast message by clicking on the refresh icon. Once you've decided, click on the green "Send" icon. Your matches will receive it instantly. There are only a few members who reply to a Flirtcast as observed during testing. For free members, you can only send one Flirtcast for every 12 hours.
MamFlirt has two kinds of searching feature. First is the basic, which filters the members based on their gender, age, and location. Next is the advanced searching where matches are filtered based on the additional information found on their profiles — ethnicity, sexual orientation, body type, hair and eye color, and if members have photos and videos on their profiles. If you want to increase your chances of appearing on search results.
Female members can receive and reply to messages of male members. This is a special privilege to MILF members.