InternationalCupid Experiences & Opinions USA

Site layout is good.

International Cupid. Is a scam and waste of money and hours of your time. The girls will communicate with you, get you on too another communication app like Whatsapp or G chat and waste your time with no intent of having a relationship. They will try to get personal info, ask you to pay for things, or try to get you to invest in Bitcoin. What a waste of money and time!!!!

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International Cupid. Is a scam and waste of money and hours of your time. The girls will communicate with you, get you on too another communication app like WhatsApp or G chat and waste your time with no intent of having a relationship. They will try to get personal info, ask you to pay for things, or try to get you to invest in Bitcoin. What a waste of money and time!!!!

There are men from many different countries and it is easy to spot the scammers.

The man I talked to for one month turned out to be someone who isn't looking for the right woman but wants to constantly play the field. While you are talking to him and he is telling you how much he cares for you you can see that he is always on there looking for more. I don't think there are any good quality of men on here. I even wonder if this man is a bot or something because the conversations he has with you always say the same thing....I am relaxing at home and making a meal. You will tell him what you did that day and later he will ask you what you did. Who am I really talking to??

I've been using this site on and off since the mid-2000s (yes, TWENTY YEARS!), back from the days it was called MyForeignBride. During this time I communicated with numerous women, of whom I met four in real life, and three of whom became girlfriends while the fourth has been a friend for five years and counting. The site has recently gone downhill, however, and hard.

In the early days the place was replete with Filipinas, who were not my target demographic, but they have since thinned out considerably. Their place has been taken by Africans, especially Kenyans and Ugandans, who I also have no interest in. There is also a surge in supposedly Chinese women, though most likely bots, supposedly living all over the world, who demand your WhatsApp number in the very first (copy-and-pasted) spam message. Then there are the supposed "Ukrainians," also likely bots, who try to harvest members' email addresses. The biggest problem is that people (women, and probably men) do not read profiles. They just go off of...pictures, I guess(?)..., and spam hundreds of guys with likes and with vapid "hi" and "hello handsome" messages. There is NO meaningful filter or other facility you can use to just be left alone by such members as well as those who otherwise fail to meet your basic requirements. Even with the messages filter the site has, the counter still includes messages sent by members you specifically excluded. Basically, you are going to spend HOURS sifting through and deleting unwanted likes and messages from women form the third world, those who are outside your age range, those without a photo, etc. The reason for my low rating of this site, therefore, is lack of a robust filter that serves to block unwanted connections with members you have zero interest in. Another reason is that the site allows people to create basically empty profiles, i.e. profiles get approved and published despite having ZERO information about a person beyond his/her age and location.

Frankly there’s nothing to like about it.

The site is riddled with scammers. African men impersonating white men. The verification badge is not even legit. I made contact with a supposed verified white Dutch guy. Exchanged numbers, and when he called me, he was African. I reported his account, but they never deleted it. The matches this site gives you, aren’t actual matches. So you waste your time here battling scammers, trying to make contact with someone, all while your money is taken each month.

Don't like

1. Message filter does not work. 2. Recently, I began to receive many offensive messages. The support service suggested that I block the user. I know perfectly well how to do it. I had to write to the support service again by applying the message screenshot, and asked to block the user page. To which I was answered that the warning was sent to him. But I see that he continues to use this site. People do not change and I am sure that he will continue offensive messages to other Russians.

Nothing

I purchased a gold membership to the site for 3 months. From day one I was experiencing glitches, bad matches and very poor search functions. I complained to their help department and they blew me off. I asked for my money back and they said I have used their site and there was no refunds. I told them I would seek a refund from Visa and then they threatened me. Very poor business practices. I will never use them again.

Many attractive women to see.

Too many scammers, especially from Asia. Lots of Chinese, attractive girls (fake photos), but in reality it's a criminal organization's scam for you to do forex investments. And the price is too expensive.

I met my future English husband after 30 days on site. We did not meet in person for 10 months and married 3 years later.

A lot of scams and fake profiles. We got lucky, so it's worth a shot!

International Cupid is little more than a platform for scammers. Practically any attractive girl on the site will eventually ask for money. Some try to lure you into visiting them, so that they can scam you there. But very many simply hit you up for money, as soon as they think you like them. They claim to need money because of an illness or broken phone or not having a job or whatever. But they so often ask for money. I suggest that you run from any girl who does so. And it might be a good idea to run from any site that does not screen out scammers.

Terrible site. Lots of men impersonating someone else. Ex: Michael K Erwin. Not a real person. This old man is stealing photos from Horst Stabler putting them on his site and stalking Stabler to seem to have the same interests. A face match brought the truth. Beware! Lots of young men wanting older American women for green cards and impersonators who must be sick or lonely. Pathetic!