DateYou Experiences & Opinions USA

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It pays people to keep other people in conversation with you to run your coins down and keep you buying more to chat with (I call them the predators ) the person that you hope is an actual connection at last, only to find as I have its all a scam!!

I am looking for someone to love

I like

Easy to use

Most so called women who matched, or text me, seemed like AI.

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All the girls are fake. They will try to get you to message non-stop even after giving them your phone number. I think the site is a scam to get you to spend money on coins, but no one is real and will really contact you. This is the same with the One Night Stand website. I have had over 100 messages from people wanting to meet up, but they will never call or text me. They will just try to keep getting me to respond by spending money on coins that allow you to message back and forth. I wish I could give it no stars.

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DateYou is the worst of all the online dating sites because every single woman appears to be a paid worker (or an animated profile, as they call it). These women have no interest in ever meeting you; they just want to chat and make you buy more coins to continue chatting. Realize they are not paying for coins. Although many online dating companies use a similar business model, DateYou is the worst of all. They refused to refund my unused coins when I presented them with facts showing that all the women are fake actors. DateYou is based in Cyprus, making it difficult, if not impossible, to press charges against them. Avoid DateYou; it is the worst online scam ever.

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It is a complete rip-off!!¡!!! It is the worst dating app there is. I would give it negative 5 stars if I could. Don't waste your time and money

Ease to use

Mostly fake profiles. They want to keep you talking on the site to cost you more.

The fake females talk dirty and want to have virtual sex online with you....but that is all a scam.... these are paid women that continually suck you dry of money.

IT IS A SCAM from the minute you get on the site to the minute you write a message..... then it is a SCAM with all the responses. Many of which are robotic and come from multiple women. Most of the responses are pre-written with a lot of " Darling, Honey, sweetheart, my dear, HIHI, etc." You will see the same messages from many women

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I’m very skeptical. Less than two minutes after I finished my profile, I had three different people contact me. So I immediately went through $50 in coins. Then I got up at 3 o’clock in the morning and I went through the profiles. Every single profile had a green dot. It says they are online. That’s impossible. I think it’s a complete scam.

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All fake female profiles. When you buy "coins" the charge your card several times. Call your customer service to tell them of the fraud. They only want you to buy "coins" to pay 50 coins per message you send. Profiles message you and try to get you to message more. Go to chat and tell them to email you and give email address and they never email you they just try to get you to message them more. ALL of them./ There are no real profiles that I found.

There weren't too many obviously fake pictures, I don't know about the accounts, but the pictures were looked like normal people. They should have to disclose the percentage of men to women because I think it was fake. Most of my messages were from fake people or paid people who just message old men like the digital equivalent of a rub and tug. LOL. I had 70 messages in 3 hours from a place called Ironwood, Kentucky. When I looked it up on your side, it says that there are no members of that site from there and the city only has a thousand people in it. I think they have one person running multiple accounts just answer an email as fast as they can. I think you call that a scam, don't you. And that's the stuff I liked.

Everything I said above, plus I had three women messaged me within the first 10 minutes of me being on there. I didn't even have a picture posted to tell me how good-looking I was and that they wanted to meet me. And they wanted to know if I was interested in more than just chatting. So I said 'sure', they were close supposedly. I said I'll be right over where you're at, then they were all technical like I just don't do that. And they had to get to know me first then, so those are all pretty much telltale signs of a scam. Maybe not a scam everywhere like in big cities, but in rural areas it's a scam. You can bet your ass too old queen Malaysian men talking to 60 to 70-year-old white guys.

It’s a pure con I’ve been on here a year no meet you or says anything other than three lines I’ve been talking to a girl 3months you better of on free dating sites these dates sites just literally are a licensed to print money the girls get twenty pence a text it’s so blantent the thing are all generic and generally shit talk I actually got a number!!!! And a guy answered hmmmmm I really think these sites seriously are gonna get some in a persion of suicidal ideas you spend hundreds of pounds on these women and they answer you 24 /7

Nothing do not spend money on it a con

Plenty of women.

They do not 'tag' fake profiles. I believe they have a very high number of fake profiles,

Plenty of girls close by

They all are working for the house, shills like in las vegas, not one girl would even meet at the most public resturant or any other place. We feel safe here. Hog wash i know they are paid by the site.

The pictures of the women are stunning

All the robots in the back just play arounfd ansd want you to chat and aspend money. I smell a rat...:)

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The women are not real, you can send a message at 4AM or anytime and within 2 minutes you will get a canned fake response. The whole site just wants you to keep messaging so that you can spend money.

I'm looking for others for a federal lawsuit.

I'm looking to file a federal class action lawsuit. pjcurro@yahoo.com

Nice looking and definitely deceiving pictures, sexually explicid for material deception. No real women found in 2 months. They are available 24 hours- not really honest.

It's all a fraud. Each one ends up sexually exciting you, even the bad looking ones.

I didn't like it even at first. It 's easy to see the scam. I've had exactly the same MISPELLED results from different women. PLEASE do not take on their one sentence question come-ons. It is a total fake. If anyone else is able to include me in a federal fraud and wire complaint, I'm ready. 414-364-7917. pjcurro@yahoo.com

The women do not answer questions but lead you on wit h more questions. They can't even read messages, correctly.

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This site uses many fake accounts This site uses many fake accounts. Bots, using AI answer most of the questions. Averaged 90 e-mails a day received. It is a scam site that just wants you to buy more tokens to chat. If you say something like I just received 400 messages in 5 days, the answer will be " Thank you for sending your phone number, but I prefer we communicate on this site". Very poor AI. A total ripoff and scam.

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They don’t have a phone number to contact them!! They took two charges of 24.99 from my account without authorization and won’t respond to messages through the only Option of contact on there site!

At first I thought, how awesome! All these women flirting with me. The pictures are nice, and they are all friendly...BUT

I found it highly suspicious that many of the women started using non-USA vernacular. Since this is a United Kingdom operation it all became clear. These women may be real in some place, some where, but not here! I read all of the other reviews and have had the same experience. There is only one man that claims he had a good experience. I totally disbelieve him. I am sure he works for them or was paid by them. I only spent $25.00. They will not get another cent. Someone professionally wrote a review saying it was a fine site. There is a special place in Hell for him. Thank you to all that shared their stories. You confirmed my suspicions.

Not much to like about this site. Purley a scam and is not US based.

I found that close to 99% of the female profiles on this site were fake or robot profiles. These profiles were placed there by DateYou solely for the purpose of getting men to chat with them and spend more money on the site. In all of the many profiles I communicated with, it was obvious after a short time that the goal of the profile was to get me to send a reply with no intention or ability to actually meet in person. I could tell these things by the wording of the text or the pictures in the profiles. DateYou is nothing but a scam, preying on lonely people

Fake site

Keeps sending you free texts to signup for coins total waste of time and money !!!!

I have met my true love on this site.

It is to expensive

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Everyone that is reasonably attractive is a fake with short, duplicate "canned" responses designed to con you into using coins to keep responding. Out of 20 contacts everyone loves me but refuses to offer an email address or call back even if you ask them to block their number. Really. This site is simply a con-job

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I Don't believe people are real and fake automated responses are generated by the site. Responded to several email at 2am to women in my area and almost got an immediate response. Really? These women are up at 2am?? Since the site charges per email you send, almost all responses seemed canned. Most unsolicited Emails I received were aggressive and wanted to meet or know more about me. I tried to give out my phone number so they could call/text me further and even suggested blocking their number. Tried this tactic 10 times where every response was essentially "like to get to know you better by emailing back to me using this site". Don't waste you money on this con job site.

Nothing is Real!!!! It’s all computer automated texting just to run you card!!!!

Everything about the Site is Fake!!!!

It was fun for a while - when I was inundated with messages from women who were all over me. For a blissful moment I thought I'd found heaven.

After a while longer - I had to replenish my coins, which of course meant more money. Still the love notes kept coming with "love, honey, sweetheart" every other sentence. Several "ladies" at a time were competing for my attention. It was exciting but then exhausting - and expensive. Then the light went on, and I realized I was being swindled. These people are assholes!

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It's all fake

Do not use this site to gind happiness. The girls work for the site. They will never call you. They will never meet you. You will never find love and romance here. You will find out the hard way. After you've maxed out your credit cards! I foud true love and romance after I left this site.

I had the worst fckng experience of my life. I believe that I was taken for at least a few hundred dollars in one night 👎👎👎I can't believe that nobody else has caught on to this problem yet! Isn't it odd that it doesn't matter HOW FRIENDLY, or HOW CLOSE you get with a mate, it always ends with, the last thing you said and I don't think this going anywhere or is going to work of (even to just be an acquaintance)! Why? Why was I speaking with a girl, and than all of a sudden she asks me what's up she hasn't been able to talk to to any guys all night and what I was up to? There is no such thing as a phone call, social media a text message or email. BECAUSE IT IS A H U G E S C A M!!!!

I met a girl .She refused to meet an insisted that we go on and on talking on the site causing me to pay for alot of coins. She may be an employee of the site leading men on but never meet

What a scam the woman is not real they work for the web site so you will spend all your coins fast and buy more you will never meet these woman

It’s very very expensive to message the same person £50 for just 20mins of conversation

They are honest in that they don't even try to hide the robots. I got the exact same word for word message from a white girl in NY and a black girl in HI. If you talk insults to the girls, they just act like you were sweet. They push the answer button as soon as you send. No way can they read before replying. Big scam

Too many ugly women

This site is a complete scam !!!!! They pay woman inhere to keep men messaging them and spend a ton of money On here for nothing . They refuse to text anywhere else!! Save your money and use another site.

its horrible most of the profiles are fake and set up by the company to let continue buying coins. you get over 100 messages but will never get any dates. i read other experinces on this App its the same complaint. they get 2 stars only because some profiles are real. but your coins are done by the time you may get to real ones over $250 spent in 2 weeks

Endless putting off meeting, non comittal chat for hours yet unwilling to meet in person. Complete fake and fraudulent website.

I’ve been over whelmed by the number of likes I’ve had. Every lady I’ve chatted with has been beautiful both on the inside as well as the outside plus I like to give full body massages 💆 and I am looking for someone special that wants a commitment and is ready to trust in a long,and loving 🥰 life

They are a little prudish on the sign up. The first time I wrote my "About Me" they deleted it. I said I was a Heterosexual male who likes PDA, among other things I wrote. PDA is popular of saying "public displays of Attention". I wrote a more detailed About me that nobody seems to read. On the plus side, there are A LOT more women. Ive been hit on by about 100 women so far and I haven't said a thing to any of them. But I know how this site works and most of the women want to talk dirty. There is probably a slim chance of actually meeting face to face. because too many men are "DOGS". Too many women have been assaulted by men they've met on dating sites. I think youspend 100 credits per comment.

Every woman on this site is FAKE! All responses are from what appears to be employees of the site and they cannot keep track of their own Reponses. Case in point: I called out one woman and told her I was married. The response was she did not like the fact I was cheating and wanted nothing to do with me. Hours later SHE sent me a message asking how I was and hoped I would not keep her waiting all year!! Cost of messaging is EXPENSIVE!!!!

I have had vary good luck with this site and so far all the women have been real. Matter o fact I'm leaving to do my laundry and meeting a woman I met last night there. This is great

I’ve spent hundreds of dollars and all thee women want to do us chat. So I don’t know if they’re fake. Also O check and the profile is online 24/7 isn’t that strange?

All lies and fake people and profiles

This site is an exact replica of a scam site called iFlirt.com. They have exactly the same look, and same functionality. They both have lots of pretty woman who sent endless text messages to me, urging me to text back, to keep texting, to text long into the night, despite the fact that they were supposedly employed, had 2 kids at home, and needed eight hours of sleep. Not even the ones I corresponded to most intimately would give me their phone numbers or email addresses. It turns out that at iFlirt and DateYou most of the profiles are fake, and you are actually texting with an operator of the parent company. Read reviews on scam report web sites to get a better idea of what is going on at DateYou before you waste a lot of your time and money.

Dateyou.com is completely a scam. There are dozens of pictures of beautiful women from all over the country. Once in a while, you might find that one is real but most are not the least bit interested in you. What they have been instructed to do is keep you chatting with them. Sounds good except you have to pay for every single reply you make. You must buy coins to continue talking. Men being what we are, we like the thought that we are talking to a beautiful woman that is interested in us. It is all a fraud. Ninety percent of the woman on there are just following orders to get you to spend more and more on coins. It seems they work on shifts and reply immediately to any message you send. Many times, they will just ignore what you say. Rather than answering, most times they will keep asking you questions to keep you talking and spending more money, Don't fall for it.

The site is way over priced a call girl is cheaper by a long shot a conversation on this site cost $300.00 . per day with no option to pick an unlimited messaging for a fraction of the cost.

All the profiles are 'entertainers'. They want to keep you texting at 50 coins a text. Tipoff: these profiles are always there (online) and do not leave as long as you are there.

I have spent massive amounts of money upwards of $600 $700 and Talked to 40 or so Ladies on this site,. I have been talking with 3 different Ladies for 8 months and I have not found one lady who is willing to go on an actual date with me!! I am beginning to think that the site is a money trap and you get no return for your money unless your into frustration and rejection, the ladies allways say how much they like you and want a date then you offer to make a date to go to dinner or some other place and they always have an excuse why they can't go out that night, I am very disappointed with this site!! 😭😭💔💔😭😭

Not good but I don't know where to place the blame. I spent mucho dollars feeling confident that I would meet the right person. Many ladies would suck me in only to want to stay in the site to chat. I gave what I thought good ladies my cell and not one out of many used it to text me. So after a few months and lots of money I have given up you win.

Have gotten many Catfishing attempts and most say they got my number off Dateyou website !? Why ? And it can’t be just a coincidence so wonder if site owners are behind or aware of this and are they also profiting from ripping horny old men off ?

There is no question you'll find a woman to talk to fast, and really intimate. If you like hot texting, you'll find it here. You may even find love,but you'l fid lots of resistance if you want to take it to the phone. I've spent lots of time, and money here, and not one meeting or phone call. The site sucks money likea drunk sailor with a bottle of Jack Daniels. I'd like to hear other experiences. By the way, I get what I want there, just not the girl.

SCAM SITE. Loaded with fake profiles. Photos are all of foreign places - not one single image that could be identified as being where the profile indicates the person lives. Language issues - use of colloquialisms are obviously foreign (or not local), and verb tenses are horrible. I seriously do not understand how you could give this site a good rating. So OBVIOUSLY a scam.

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I found this site to be a complete and total waist of time. The "women" on the site appear to be online 24/7. And I found more than a few with faked or stolen photos. The one and only goal of these people is to get you to keep You spending money on coins/messages. You will also notice that their typing/texting style change (depending on what time you message). They don't seem to remember what was chatted about earlier in the conversation (like you've moved onto a new person). And you have zero chance of communication with these women outside of this site. I feel that this site is +90% click bait. Just trying to get your money.

Believe all the people I talk to are bots. When asked a question get the same answer from multiple people. Not worth your time or money.

I found the site to be a complete waste of time and pretty much FAKE women! I even communicated with one woman who was supposedly living nearby BUT she didn't know the first thing about the little town, SHE SUPPOSEDLY LIVED IN, so I knew SHE WAS FAKE. I know the town VERY WELL. They just want to chat and have you use up your "COINS" as fast as possible so you will use more.

WARNING WARNING The women on this site are ALL fakes and frauds. Their sole purpose is to hold men on the site to chat by asking STUPID QUESTIONS and coming up with excuse after excuse why they can't call you on the phone or meet for drinks. THEY ARE PHONIES AND FRAUDS AND FAKES!!! DO NOT BUY COINS. When it comes time to talk on the phone or meet you ALWAYS have an excuse. YOU ARE PHONIES..... AND FAKE !!!!!

Is a total SCAM,womens seems to never rest,always online 24/7 yo can contac them at any time and they respond inmediately....As soon you are running out of coins is when you start getting more messages so they want you to keep buying coins and the ladies never want to meet in person....If chatting for ourse is your thing and waste money go ahead,My message to all..STAY AWAY FROM THIS SITE!

Zero credibility. 100% bots. Their tricks to keep you sending/spending frivilous msgs is totally transparent and frustrating. I can’t believe I spent money on that site.

Date you is a scam the women that you talk to communicate in broken English and will answer you anytime immediately day or night. How do that do they ever sleep. This is how.i was talking with one and all of a sudden the conversation demeanor and verbiage shifted when I questioned it they asked if I would like to talk to the other girl I was talking with. Must have been shift change. The profiles are there to get you to spend money on coins and nothing else. They will promise to meet you and when you try to talk about a safe public place to meet day and time they immediately change the conversation and try to keep you online. Stay away save your money. I have even caught them revamping my profile after I deleted it they forgot to change my email so I started receiving emails about ladies trying to contact me.

This place is a total scam! You have to buy coins just to talk to someone and then they never want to meet you even when they say they are "HOT FOR YOU". I have proof it's a scam because two different women from different areas sent me the exact same creative message.

All the profiles are 'entertainers'. They want to keep you texting at 50 coins a text. Tipoff: these profiles are always there (online) and do not leave as long as you are there.

I get lots of messages, but they all seem fake. When I ask a specific question, I get a vague answer.

after you get past all of the bullshit; it is $1.00 to leave ONE message. think about that for a second and then you will realize the entire thing is a scam. the girls i messaged all said: i dont give out my cell number; i dont give out my email; i dont give out my socials; etc. etc etc. in other words, if you want to continue interacting with them, it will cost you $1.00 for EVERY SINGLE message you send them. horseshit on top of rat shit, on top of bull shit, on top of...... well you get the point

This is a scam site!! None of the profiles list if they smoke AND NONE write ANYTHING in the section, "About me." Add to that, they NEVER give out their phone numbers EVEN after spending ALL KINDS OF COINS!! There is NO UNLIMITED CHATTING!! I have had 7 t0 10 previews from the SAME CITY!! There is NO WAY that there are that many from the SAME TOWN LOOKING AT THE SAME TIME!! I think this site mines these profiles! Mine was mined from some other site AND the profile didn't even have my age right!! I found this out because I was getting emails saying someone sent me a message.

I don't mind paying for messaging when I'm trying to meet someone. But DateYou charges about $1 per message for all messages. However, I could never get even one of the women to video-chat privately using Skype. And neither could I get a woman to merely chat with the Facebook Messenger app. The standard response of all the women - and I must've contacted at least 50 - was that they felt safe using DateYou. If you actually read DY's General Terms and Conditions, (section 11e) they admit to hiring "operators" to chat with male patrons, of course at $1 per message. I never found a single woman who I thought was a legitimate member, rather than one of the site's operators. IMO, the site is a major scam operation to take your money, $1 at a time.

I have asked women for e-mail address's or phone #, everytime they give me the excuse not about 5 for 5 women come on

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Definitely fake site, with many fake profiles and automated messages sent to you hourly urging you to buy coin and reply. You could check easily to reveal the messages are not from real person but software generated by writing your text phone number in your profile and choosing a user name such as "textme" then see messages pouring in saying: Dear textme send me or let's exchange text number or just read your profile what is your text number? Also from experience I know when a dating site has Cypress address, it is very unwise to use credit card or else to buy coins or subscriptions as it will follow with assortments of other charges to credit card with virtually no way to cancel as the listed phone numbers put you on everlasting holds if you select any option other than buying more from them.

I’ve been surprised at the shear volume of women liking my profile.

Good-- there are a lot of ladies, many of them very pretty (although I have heard that there are many scammers, especially among the pretty ones; bad--In my opinion, the site is expensive in that it not un usual to spend 1,000 in coins communicating at length with one member