ChinaLoveCupid Review USA November 2026: Scam or Real Dates?

I have used this site since January of 2010 and have had several serious romantic relationships with ladies who contacted me here, including one lasting several years. I'm presently involved with a gal working in the NYC area ( I live on Long Island ) but with long working hours. The quality of the REAL CHINESE LADIES here is outstanding: Cultured, caring, highly educated.........But!........

......Over the last 1 1/2 years the site has been increasingly taken over by African scammers, comprising a solid 15-20% of the profiles you see! They are easy to pick out: A big breasted white woman with one photo, mid 30s, looking for a man 45 to 80! Many post only one photo, and very little information. Nothing about their messages or introductions ( if they write one ) is in character with Chinese women. I am often greeted with " Where do you live? ", which is clear for them to see.....WHAT IS SO SAD IS THAT THE SCAMMERS CAN EASILY BE FILTERED OUT, YET CUPID DOES ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ABOUT THEM!....... Avoid this circus for the time being!

I have made many close friends here and have had serious romantic relationships with ladies I met, including one that lasted over 7 years (because of issues we were unable to solve, we opted not to marry in the end). There is ample space for you to give very detailed information about yourself, as well as the kind of partner you are looking for. Making changes to your profile is also quite easy. The ages and educational range of the ladies is quite broad: If you do not find someone, in all likelihood, someone will find you! I average about 15 new ladies contacting me each month (I prefer to let the girls reach out to me first)...

So, what could be a problem with a 5-star rating? Plenty of annoying matters! 1) There is an option for the ladies to send numerous 'Like You' messages en masse, without even looking at your profile. This results in your sometimes replying to ladies who have no real interest in you at all. 2) Any lady can send you a message without having seen your entire profile page, just because she likes your appearance. There should be a means to require someone to at least look at your information first, so she knows what you are looking for! 3) Cupid supplies the ladies (and perhaps the men as well) with silly pre-packaged messages. This makes it easy for a gal to avoid reading your profile statements and learning about you, and militates against learning about who she is ostensibly interested in. 4) There are countless scammers; they come and go. Since most men pay and the majority of ladies don't, scammers post photos of young, very sexy—and often not Chinese—ladies, with little information, and then simply indicate an interest in numerous older men, hoping to hook a victim. I have reported many! Cupid works on volume and does virtually nothing to vet new members. A fairly complete, consistent profile should be required of all, whether paid members or not.

Most of the members said the truth and I appreciate honesty, obedience, charm, and true love.

The liar, cheater and someone playing games.