If Your Partner Won’t Do These 9 Things, You’re Not Enough Of A Priority To Them

One way to tell if you are a top priority to your partner, is if you become their go-to person when they get big news — both good and bad.

"If your partner turns to friends and other people to discuss their deepest thoughts — up to a point that [they seem] like a mystery to you — you should be alerted," dating expert Celia Schweyer, tells Bustle.

And the same is true if they seem indifferent to your big news, when you call them. If they can't take the time to listen, or don't seem excited about what you have to say, you may want to take a closer look at the health of your relationship.