The Best Sexting Tips and Examples for Men

If there’s one trend that hasn’t changed in the dating sphere, it’s “sexting”. Sexting is the act of sending sexually explicit messages, photos, or videos via any digital device to people you trust your private information with. The word itself is a combination of “sex” and “texting”. 

Today’s smartphone technology and convenient accessibility to the internet have made sexting prevalent, especially with tech-savvy teens and young adults. The younger generations see texting as a method to test and/or induce sexual connection and relationships with their partners or potential partners. However, sexting is not only for the younger crowd – adults of any age can still find enjoyment in sexting. Especially for those who are in long-distance relationships, sexting is very important to keep the sexual connection alive.

In this article, we share how to make the best out of sexting and how to sext safely to keep your privacy. Read on and become a master of the art of sexting!

The 5 Types of Sexts with Examples

Sexts can be categorized into many types. Here are the five main types of sexts and their examples:

Teasing

Teasing Sexts

Teasing sexts is the beginning of a good sexting session. These messages will either start a steamy conversation or decide if you need to deal with your excitement alone. It ultimately depends on your partner’s mood whether she will engage with your teasing sexts – if she does, then let the fun begin. If she’s not, it may be better to cool down by yourself (if you know what I mean).

Some examples of sexts under the Teasing category:

“It’s too bad you aren’t here right now…”
“I’m touching myself right now and thinking about you.”
“I thought of something I want to do to you tonight…”

Fantasy

What’s great about sexting is you can live your deepest, darkest fantasies without really having to do it if it makes you uncomfortable in real life. So, if you have things you like to fantasize about, that can be a great sext.

“I’m picturing you and me with another person.”
“I like thinking about you tying me up in bed.”

Requests

Requests in sexting don’t have to mean that your partner literally needs to give in or do what you ask. Requests can be part of the role play too – it encourages control and dominance over your partner, and that can be hot in sexting.

“I want to watch you touch yourself.”
“Let me take control tonight.”
“I want to cum in your mouth.”

Memories

Looking back to memories with her in your bed can coax feelings of nostalgia and longing. These feelings can intensify your sexting session as you are also drawing on emotional energy, not just sexual. Using past memories in your sexts can also deepen romance in sexting.

“I can’t get last night out of my mind.”
“I want you to do exactly what you did last time we…”
“Remember that time we…”

Compliments

There’s nothing that would make your woman turned on other than complimenting her and making her feel like she’s the sexiest person on earth. Compliments will fire her up inside, and you’ll thank yourself for saying them later on.

“I love staring at your…”
“I get so turned on whenever you…”
“I can’t get enough of you.”

8 Sexting Tips for Men

Sexting can add so much fun and excitement to any relationship – yet it can also quickly go sideways. Imagine if you and your partner are getting it on, then you suddenly say the wrong thing… you’ll only be left with blue balls. Not cool!

With that, here are eight sexting tips to ensure that you’d have the best time sexting with your girl:

1. Perfect the timing

Timing is everything when it comes to sexting. You wouldn’t want to send a text message that will make your girl’s eyes pop out during an important meeting with her boss. Moreover, if you suddenly send an NSFW photo through an instant messaging app, which your partner is accessing through her desktop computer – people from the office might accidentally see it! *eep* Say bye to your privacy!

If you’re not sure what your partner is doing, it would be best to know first what she’s currently up to. You can simply ask her if she’s busy (and alone) to see if it’s a good time to send an NSFW text and/or photo.

2. Build up the tension

Similar to foreplay in sex, sexting also needs a warm-up. When you engage in actual sex, you wouldn't put it in immediately right? You'd have to make out and touch each other first in order to for both to reach satisfaction.

And so, don’t dive into your kinky fantasies outright – build the tension up. It’s best to ease into your sext dialogue and gradually build from there. This way, both of you will have an exceptional time with your sexting session.

3. Stick to the role you’re playing

Remember that when you sext, you are playing a role. Sexting is playful – and you need to be playful until the end. Your messages, photos, and/or videos can make or break your sexting session. Be sure to stick to the role of getting into something freaky with your partner until you both reach the point of satisfaction.

There are no limits to sexting – you can make it as intense as you want as long as both you and your partner are comfortable. Because you're using your imagination to make sexting worthwhile, you can dive deep into your fantasies and play it out through sexts. 

Another note, remember to only sext with your partner or a woman you trust. You wouldn't want your explicit photos spread out in the internet, would you?

Right Visuals

4. Send the right visuals

How provocative can you get with the photos you send is ultimately up to you. However, be sure that you’re sending the right visuals at the right time. Don’t send a picture of your privates at the first few message exchanges. Instead, you can tease your girl by experimenting with taking photos of other areas of your body then gradually sending more sexually explicit content.

5. Draw from your fantasies and personal experiences

You can get inspiration from past experiences you already had with your current partner (or any sex encounters you had before) – and reference it on your sexts. You may also draw from your deepest kinky fantasies – describing in detail what you want to happen that will keep her on her toes.

6. Master the art of dirty talk

Sexting is basically dirty talk in the form of text messages. Mastering the art of dirty talk through texts helps paint a visual of the fantasy you’re having with your partner who’s currently not in bed with you. Using your imagination and describing what you see through a message is an important aspect of a successful sext session. Tell your girl what you want to do with her – give instructions, and describe how your body is reacting to what she’s sending back.

7. Don’t get too technical

The words you use in your sexts are very important. Let loose – use slang words such as “cock” instead of penis, so it will sound good in her head when she’s reading your text. You would want to keep the conversation to be more fluid. You wouldn’t want her to reply after a couple of minutes because she had to look into the dictionary to find the meaning of some of the words you use.

Fun in Sexting

8. Be comfortable and have fun

Sexting is not a bad thing. It’s normal, especially if you and your partner don’t live under the same roof yet. Sexting is also important in long-distance relationships to keep the sexual connection alive. So, don’t listen to the naysayers who say that sexting is bad, and you will get punished in hell for it. Be comfortable and just have fun with it!

The Problem with Sexting and How to Sext Safely

Of course, we can’t deny that there is also a problem with sexting, especially for teens. An uncensored photo can quickly become viral in the internet space. With today’s accessibility to the internet, even underage teens can conveniently share nude photos online without knowing the possible consequences.

We recommend that you should be of age AND only send sexts to girls you trust. It would be best if you only sext with your partner, to be honest – especially if you’re going to show your face. Also, don’t engage in sexting with underage girls. You can be charged with child pornography, and you wouldn’t want that to happen.

Final Words

Sexting is fun, but you should only do it with your partner or with people you trust. Sexts, especially visual content, can quickly become viral and can cause harassment and humiliation. Therefore, as much as sexts are thrilling and exciting, best to still keep it low-key.

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