25.01.2021
Bustle: 20 Signs Your Relationship Isn’t Working Anymorefrom: Bustle
"Nobody wants to be blamed and become the bad cop," Celia Schweyer, a dating and relationship expert, tells Bustle, which is why you dig for negative traits, and then try to make a big deal out of them, in order to justify leaving.
If your relationship has run its course, you'll probably start doing this subconsciously.